“Carry belle, carry belle” — Lady sparks controversy over advice to single women
A social media post by a woman advising single women aged 35 and above to consider getting pregnant has sparked widespread debate online.
The comment, which circulated on various platforms over the weekend, drew mixed reactions from users who criticised the statement as insensitive while others debated the realities of marriage, age and societal pressure.
The post, reportedly directed at unmarried women, encouraged them not to wait indefinitely for marriage, suggesting alternative paths to motherhood as a form of personal fulfilment.
Controversial advice stirs reactions
“Carry belle, carry belle, all my single ladies, 35 years and above, nobody don price you, na so so disappointment, stop waiting, see update, go carry belle,” she said. See as it fit me so, e go fit you, go carry belle, born your own pikin because na this pikin go help you,” she added, urging women to prioritise having children if marriage delays persist.
Debate over societal expectations
The remarks quickly generated reactions, with many social media users arguing that such advice overlooks personal choice, cultural values and the importance of marriage in different communities.
Others, however, noted that the comment reflects growing conversations around changing family structures and the pressure faced by women as they age.
The latest post underscores ongoing tensions between traditional norms and evolving perspectives on relationships and family life in modern society.
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If you are 35 years and above, no husband, go and get pregnant
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