“Balance am, men: Don’t give your all, women forget sacrifices” — Lady advises men on relationships
A lady has sparked conversations online after sharing a candid warning to men about relationships, stressing that women often forget the sacrifices men make.
According to her, men often go above and beyond in relationships, paying school fees, buying gadgets, and providing financial support for various needs. Despite these efforts, she said, some women tend to overlook such sacrifices.
Men advised to moderate their sacrifices
“Ah, men, listen to me o. We women, eh, we are very quick to forget all the sacrifices that you men make for us. You see, you go do everything—pay school fees, buy phone, send money for hair, for this, for that. You overdo your part as a man. But small thing, we forget everything! We just pack our load and go. ‘What did he even do for me?’ As if nothing happened,” she said.
Women may forget acts of generosity
She added a cautionary note, urging men to maintain balance in their efforts and ensure that their partners also contribute.
“Balance am, ehn? Make she sef put something. No be only you go dey sacrifice. I’m warning you men o. Don’t say I didn’t tell you,” the woman advised.
The video has since garnered attention for its frank discussion of gender roles, relationship expectations, and the importance of mutual effort in partnerships.
Watch the video below…
We women are so quick to forget about the sacrifices of a man, please don’t overdo your part as a man.
~ Nigerian lady warns men. pic.twitter.com/2i6XBXLqWJ
— FZ™ (@Feeztm) February 24, 2026