“At 28, I found out my marriage would never produce children” – Lady opens up after years of pains, judgment

A Nigerian lady has opened up on the painful truth she discovered about her marriage, revealing that she would never be able to have children.

The video was shared by @teeniiola on X (formerly Twitter), where she recounted her emotional journey.

She explained that at 28, she learned her husband was impotent, a secret she kept even from her mother, who passed away without ever knowing the truth.

Struggles With Her In-Laws

According to her, she faced constant pressure from her mother-in-law, who insisted that nothing was wrong with her son and placed all the blame on her.

The persistent judgment made her life extremely difficult and emotionally draining.

Eventually, she confronted her mother-in-law, but instead of understanding, she said she was labeled a “bad wife” by others.

Acceptance After Years of Pain

The woman revealed that she is now 46 and no longer aches for children, not because she didn’t want them, but because her right to decide was taken from her.

Reflecting on her journey, she said: “At 28, I found out that my marriage would never produce children. Whenever my mother asked why I hadn’t conceived, I would simply tell her, ‘God’s time is the best.’ I never told her the truth, that my husband was impotent. I carried that secret alone. My mother passed away without ever knowing.

“Meanwhile, my mother-in-law made my life unbearable. She insisted that nothing was wrong with her son and placed all the blame on me. One day, I finally broke down and confronted her. Instead of understanding, everyone labeled me a bad wife for speaking up.

“Now, at almost 46, I no longer ache for children, not because I didn’t want them, but because the choice, the simple right to decide whether I wanted children or not, was taken from me.”

See below;

https://twitter.com/Teeniiola/status/2023453586382811475?s=20