“Any time I mess, you suppose dey thank me” – Husband tells angry wife
A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after expressing frustration over her husband’s repeated habit of messing in her presence without excusing himself.
The video, shared by @teniiola on X (formerly Twitter), captured the couple exchanging heated words over the incident.
Frustration Over Repeated Habit
According to the lady, her husband frequently messes around her, but this time she could not ignore it.
She said he could have simply excused himself or asked her to step away instead of doing it openly.
She lamented that the behavior was beginning to affect her feelings toward him, describing it as irritating and disrespectful.
Husband’s Response
The husband, however, appeared unbothered and treated the situation like a joke.
He insisted that he had the right to mess anywhere in the house and suggested that since she married him, she should tolerate it.
Despite his wife urging him to go to the toilet because of the smell, he refused, escalating the argument.
Their Exchange
Wife: Babe, which kind stupid character is this? Babe, go and shit now, stop nah. You dey make me regret why I marry you. Which kind stupid character is this? Get out joor.
Husband: Any time I mess, you suppose dey thank me, say, “Thank you, my love.” You no get respect.
Wife: Be like say you sick abi? You dey kill the love wey I get for you with this rubbish thing wey you dey always do because na every day you go dey mess. I regret ever meeting you.
Husband: Make I no mess because say I marry?
Wife: Then excuse yourself na, go to the toilet.
Husband: Dem tell you say toilet dey for mess?
Wife: But why is it that whenever I’m around you, you go dey do rubbish?
Husband: You dey where I dey, so when I wan mess, make I comot?
Wife: You can say excuse, I go comot.
Husband: No, I no go say excuse. You’re not going anywhere. We dey strengthen our love, we dey strengthen our bond. If I mess, you tell me, “Thank you, sir. Thank you, my love.”
Wife: Just get out. Everything about you is just irritating…”
See below;
A lady regrets getting married to her husband after he messed in her presence without any excuse.
According to her, her husband always messes around, but she didn’t take it lightly this time. She said he could have simply excused himself or asked her to step away instead of… pic.twitter.com/q2ryRgvOdO
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) February 23, 2026
