“Any man that says I don’t have is not ready for a relationship” – Man shares bold advice to women
A Nigerian man has sparked reactions online after sharing his views on relationships, and what he believes men should bring to the table before dating.
In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @feeztm, he advised women to avoid men who constantly claim they have no money.
According to him, men are expected to be financially stable before dating, arguing that God created man with purpose and provision even before creating woman.
In his words, he said:
“Listen to me, you don’t have any business with any man that is telling you ‘I don’t have.’ Any man that doesn’t have doesn’t need a relationship. What he needs is to make it.”
He further stated that women are not meant to suffer in relationships and should not be burdened with maintaining themselves financially while dating a man.
He also argued that men are often attracted to women because of their beauty and appearance, which require money to maintain, and therefore should not expect women to shoulder those costs.
“You saw the woman, she’s beautiful, and you went to toast her. If she didn’t look attractive, would you toast her?
She needs to maintain her beauty. You can’t come into her life and expect her to still use her money to take care of herself,” he added.
He concluded by advising women to be wise in their choices and urged men to stop pursuing relationships when they are not financially prepared.
Watch video below…
Women, you don’t have any business with any broke man, he should leave relationship and go and hustle.
~ Male feminists advices his fellow feminists. pic.twitter.com/AHBPY1qcuf
— FZ™ (@Feeztm) January 29, 2026
