“All these girls don’t love” – Lady sparks buzz, claims women only date men for money
A Nigerian lady has stirred reactions online after boldly sharing her thoughts about modern relationships. According to her, many women are not dating for love but for financial security.
In a trending clip, she advised men to stop being overly emotional in relationships and focus on building themselves first.
In her words, she said:
“All these girls don’t love. It’s men that go into relationships for love. Some girls are in relationships for provision. If you can give them what they need, they will give you their body.”
The lady explained that some women use one man to stabilise their lives before moving on to someone who can afford them better.
She also claimed women naturally prioritise themselves and often receive financial help more easily than men.
“As a man, make yourself your number one priority. A woman can just be pretty and one guy will dash her 2 million or 5 million. But you as a man, who will give you free money?” she added.
While some social media users agreed with her, others criticised her generalisation, saying not all women date for money.
While some social media users agreed with her stance, others criticised her for generalising, arguing that not all women date for financial benefits.
One user wrote, “She’s not entirely wrong, but not every woman is dating for money.” Another added, “Men also date for what they can get. Let’s stop acting like it’s one-sided.”
The video has sparked fresh debate about love, money, and priorities in today’s dating scene.
Watch video below…
“In everything we do in this life, we women always put ourselves first. Girls don't go into relationships for love, they go for their self-interest. Men help women more than their fellow man. I can be on my own, and a man will dash me 2 or 5 million just for being pretty." – Lady… pic.twitter.com/rJyffD7Fca
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) February 11, 2026
