“Abuja married men are very wicked” — Lady sparks debate over relationships and lifestyle
A lady has triggered widespread reactions online after criticizing some married men in Abuja over relationships she described as emotionally and financially manipulative.
The woman shared her opinion in a viral social media post saying that some married men lure young women into expensive lifestyles they cannot independently maintain, only to later abandon the relationships.
Lady accuses married men of manipulation
According to the woman, many young women initially survive on modest salaries and affordable rent before becoming involved with wealthy married men who drastically change their living conditions.
“You meet a girl managing her life paying rent of ₦400k. Then you start dating her and rent an apartment of ₦2 million for her,” she wrote.
“You introduce her to a certain kind of life and isolate her from everybody. You told her not to date anybody and stay loyal to you that is a married man.”
She further claimed that after some time, the men withdraw emotional and financial support, sometimes citing religious reasons or a renewed commitment to their marriages.
“You’re now saying you’ve given your life to Christ and want to go back to your wife. Shey you didn’t think about that before?” she added.
Social media users divided over viral post
The post generated mixed reactions online, with some users agreeing that certain relationships create unhealthy dependency, while others argued that adults should take responsibility for their choices.
Similar conversations around transactional relationships, financial dependency and dating culture in Abuja and Lagos have repeatedly surfaced on Nigerian social media in recent years.
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“Abuja married men are very wick£d”
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