“A man can pretend to be obsessed with you while he doesn’t even love you” — Lady drops brutal relationship truth
A lady has shared a hard-hitting warning to women about men who pretend to be obsessed with them.
She argued that “men can fake obsession. It a fake obsession for you, but it make you feel like if they obsessed with you and make you feel they won’t be able to live without you.”
Lady says many men use fake obsession to trap women emotionally
She explained that some men use the illusion of intense feelings to make a woman believe she is the only one in their life.
According to her, this behaviour often gives the wrong impression of love and commitment, creating a false sense of importance and attachment.
Why jealousy and possessiveness are not always signs of love
She elaborated that the so-called jealousy or possessiveness some men display is usually staged.
“If he sees you with another boy, he’ll pretend to be jealous. Na lie, na fake fake jealousy. It not real jealousy, because he knows that if you no feel that jealousy, you go feel say, he no love you.”
The lady cautioned that such behaviour is transactional, centred only on physical or superficial satisfaction rather than genuine care. “It not care about you. He’s just there for your body!”
Watch the video below…
Chai! This girl just cast brotherhood just like that! 😫😭 pic.twitter.com/OThQQpzR0j
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) January 29, 2026
