A lot of women want traditional man but not willing to be a traditional wife – Lady
A woman has shared her views on relationships where a man takes full financial responsibility for the household.
According to her, many people admire the idea of being fully provided for without considering the expectations and responsibilities that often come with such arrangements.
She argued that men who shoulder major financial burdens typically seek peace, respect, and cooperation in return.
The lady further stated that some women desire the benefits of a traditional relationship dynamic without embracing what she described as the responsibilities attached to being a traditional partner.
She maintained that disagreements often arise when individuals want provision but resist the structure and discipline that may accompany it.
Her words …
“Do you know what comes with a man that pays all the bills? Because everybody loves the idea of being taken care of until they realize what comes with it.
It not just about him providing, it’s also about you learning to properly position yourself in that kind of household. A man carrying that sort of responsibilities is not looking for ch@os, attitude, disrespect.
He’s looking for peace, respect and a woman who knows how to move with him, not against him.
You can’t want a man to lead and then f!ght him every step of the way.
You can’t say you want provision and reject the structure that comes with it. Provision comes with expectations, not control. It comes with discipline, respect and I don’t think a lot of y’all want to hear that.
A lot of you want the lifestyle but not the alignment. You want the benefits but not the responsibility.
A lot of women want a traditional husband, but don’t want to play the role of the traditional wife. That’s why when you do get that kind of man, you don’t know how to keep him….”
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Lady explains what comes with a man who pays all the bills
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