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‘Help! I’m in Love with 2 Guys, should I Leave my boyfriend?’ – Lady Laments



Below is how the confused lady narrated her story on a popular Instagram relationship page, Break or Make-up;
I’m in a dilemma, I think I’m in love with two guys, I’m in my early-twenties.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years though we’ve had our ups and downs,we are both in the same country ,I’ve also been great friends with this other guy for about 8 years (he’s in Nigeria) we are extremely free with each other,he understands me very well, Our communication is 100% and he knows me like the back of his hand.

This guy in question has asked me out severally and I refused cos I was either dating or not ready to date , the beautiful/funny thing is each time I say no, he doesn’t get upset or anything he quietly goes back into the friend but I guess he’s tired of been in that zone because recently he’s been telling me of how much he loves me and really wants to have a serious relationship with me.

Truth be told is I’m really fond of him and really like him (I said fond cos I don’t know if I love him), he has a sweet personality and he’s very sensitive .. in these past few months he’s given me a real idea of how an ideal partner should be , I don’t pray to break up with my bf but if It happens I’m not going to date anyone below the standards this other guy has set.

Note: My present boyfriend may not be perfect but he’s a good person

I need matured advice on what to do, date him which means double dating , tell him no again and risk losing him which will hurt tho , or any other reasonable options

Thanks in advance.

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  1. Moses Isaac

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:00

    Follow your heart.

  2. Abdulmalik Mohammed

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:00

    Go for the one u love most i cant really advise u

  3. Olagunju Emmanuel Olaleyeh

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:01

    U re still young for all dis face your future make your parents proud

  4. Mohammed Mohammed

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:02

    Follow ur heart

  5. Egwuatu Mary Onyinye Priscilia

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:02

    You don’t have a heart but memory card because there is no way you can love two guys the same way

  6. Hollowyehde Phocu's Beeb

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:06

    Its up to you, you have a very difficult decision to make there….Visit a Marriage Counsellor

  7. Ifab Olamide

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:06

    I will advice to follow ur heart

  8. Chica Sochima Jnr

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:06

    she already know who she loves and is just making noise

  9. Atawodi Innocent

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:06

    Dis question just de make me de hisssssssssss

  10. Oyedeji Toluwani Emmanuel

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:07

    I JUST DEY OBSERVE THE SECOND GUY WHO HAS NOW BEING FRIEND ZONED and is STILL HOPING AGAINST HOPE that You.will soon be his… *Issokay THE PEOPLE OF ISREALITE WAITED FOR 40 years before reaching the promise land… You can break the record and wait for her also to answer you!!…. #Don’tJustUnderstandSomeGuys

  11. Ekay Jacob

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:07

    My dear go back nd face ur career caus dere wil all leave u if u dnt hv a feature

  12. Cynthiamagret Unaegbu

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:08

    my dear if ur in love with more than one person then that thing u call heart is no longer a heart it is called a #_MEMORY_CARD repeat after me say #memory_card….mchewwww

    • Simpson Onyema Chineke

      Jan 10, 2017 at 12:13

      Took the word out of my Make I repeat am for her Memory Card

    • Miracle Udo

      Jan 10, 2017 at 13:03

      Memory card…… Again. Memory card…

    • Horlarhedey Julihana Hardeybohwale

      Jan 11, 2017 at 11:24


  13. Chica Sochima Jnr

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:10

    everybody just de shout follow your, you better give her good advice oo cos she fit be your gal

  14. Elizabeth Silas Ochen

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:10

    Yes ooo leave ur boyfriend. But don’t forget diz saying. “The devil u knw is better than the angel u don’t knw” . just be careful.

  15. Forgive Soga

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:11


  16. Itohan Omo

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:19

    U cant love two guys at the same time. There must be a particular one

  17. Ife Fatokun

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:21

    You are in love with two guys in your early twenties?So u are already welding two rods at ur tender age?Now we don’t know whether one of them or even both of them are ‘abokis’ with extra-extra large cucumber ooo,later u’ll now get married and put the blame on ur husband that he is not satisfying you well when ‘trailer’ and ‘tipper’ have entered your garage.

    • Alliy Hamza

      Jan 10, 2017 at 12:39

      Abokis wit der cucumber…lol

    • Oboite Joelson

      Jan 10, 2017 at 13:07

      lolz…..! u funny sha

    • Festus Ephraim Senior

      Jan 10, 2017 at 16:29

      Ur mum reads ur comments, hope dis s nt bad 2 av comment. lol?

    • Rosemary Onyicro

      Jan 11, 2017 at 16:58


  18. Obatunwase Oluwatimilehin Adeyemi

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:23

    I will say its not possible. Sure u cn love 5 people at d same time, bt to be in love NO! chk ur heart there is one u care 4 so much dat u cnt bear losin him while u just love d oda as in natural

  19. Ijeoma Sunday

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:23

    D only problem I c here is dis: “listening” dear friend, take a pause & quietly listen to ur heart, just open up quietly to ur heart & let ur heart speak for u. Love is a beautiful thing but when is thwarted, people say it BLIND. D problem here is u, until u listen to ur heart u will remain in state of dilemma bcos ur issue is not about people opinion. Thanks. OLP

  20. Andrew God'slove

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:28

    some people are only ment to be friends making them anything other than that may be harmfull

  21. Odoh Collins

    Jan 10, 2017 at 12:51

  22. Adeyemo Oluwatobiloba

    Jan 10, 2017 at 13:07

    More like u r in ❤ wit ur bofy & in #lust wit dis new guy U can’t eat ur cake and hav it dear #OliverTwist Search ur heart…. It has d answers✔☑

  23. Emeka Ezeh King Master

    Jan 10, 2017 at 13:09

    You need Jesus!

  24. Emeka Ezeh King Master

    Jan 10, 2017 at 13:09

    Confused ni? What a joke!

  25. Oboite Joelson

    Jan 10, 2017 at 13:17

    hope this is not ur real face…….?

  26. Bisola Oluwole

    Jan 10, 2017 at 13:21

    Be dating both of them as times goes on one will be tired

    • Babyfest Amarachy

      Jan 11, 2017 at 06:35

      Hahahahaha…..Bisola eeh

  27. Oladele Olusola Onigbogi

    Jan 10, 2017 at 19:24

    My advice for u is too follow ur heart

  28. Samson Chigozie

    Jan 10, 2017 at 19:52


  29. Kehinde Ramoni

    Jan 10, 2017 at 20:03

    Go back to your boy friend.

  30. Oluwashina Olufowobi

    Jan 10, 2017 at 21:44

    Yes,eve they is money

  31. Afolayan Victor Augment

    Jan 10, 2017 at 21:48

    seems u ve nt met dis oda guy physically, guy pretend, stay wer u dey jeje

  32. Kenneth Agbo

    Jan 10, 2017 at 23:21

    As she said early 20s that is why she is confused when you clock 30s you can find anyone and immediately got married useless post dey there they do dating for 4year God have mercy on you because nah lust dey trouble you that’s why you’re confused

  33. Monica Ene Apochi

    Jan 11, 2017 at 12:10

    I don’t think it’s possible to love two people equally. If you loved the first, you would not have gone for the second. Just search your heart and go for the one u love more

  34. Ofu Bassey

    Jan 11, 2017 at 17:38

    4+8=12yrs in relationship with 2 guys in your early twenties. That mean u started eating guys chewing gum wen u r 4 years. O babe! U get strength to fire them.

  35. Vera Ngozi Vera

    Jan 11, 2017 at 21:24

    Find out who love u more, bcos is safer to marry who love u more not who u love more.

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