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“If another person’s chat makes you happy and …” – Lady lists cheating signs

A Nigerian lady lists the day-to-day activities that are common signs of cheating but are easily neglected due to the normality of these actions.

A social media user identified as @CHI_funmii took to the microblogging platform, X to emphasize the signs of infidelity to be conscious about.

According to the lady, giving attention to other people other than your partner is cheating as it indicates a motive to have an affair if time and location present themselves.

She added that being in a relationship equals total devolution to that one person, anything outside that can be considered as infidelity.

In her words;

“Some of you think cheating is until, you become sexually involved with another person. This isn’t the case at all.

YOU ARE CHEATING IF;

  • Another person’s chat makes you happy other than your spouse.
  • You hide chats from your partner.
  • You look forward to their chat.
  • You give them excessive attention.”

"If another person's chat makes you happy and ..." - Lady lists cheating signs

Her claim has since generated a wave of reactions, many of whom agreed with her school of thought.

Reactions as lady list signs of cheating

deriqblaq said: “I often say cheating doesn’t happen the day it happens
It’s mostly premiditated
Planned
Kept secret
Carefully thought out & executed
It wasn’t a “mistake/accident”
You weren’t just walking, kicked a stone & stumbled in bed with the opposite gender naked & penetration occurred.”

Chimdi0811 penned: “99% of people in relationships in Nigeria Dey cheat if na like this. No cap.”

Thefranknation stated: “They will dating Somebody but their TIME & ATTENTION is for everybody. Zero Loyalty & Commitment. Accountability Zero.”

InanaPaul noted: “My own is I won’t even think twice once I notice something and I ask you.

Bae: who is this guy
And you start defending or saying some crap

Me I go just off my mic towards you and slowly move on.”

shyvvonnety said: “I thought we all know these things already.”

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